When you become a father or a mother, most of your attention shifts from your own future to your kids’ future. But one of the most effective ways to help your children learn to have a big dream is to ensure that your own dreams will not be given up because of trivial things. Every dream begins from imagination. Spend a few minutes sitting down with a notebook and think about where you would like to be in 20 years. Write down details about all aspects of your ideal life. Feel free to imagine. Don’t worry about whether you know how to get there now—you have 20 years to figure that out. Making use of your strengths creates good results. You should find out your strengths first.Once you know your strengths, you can make use of them to help you achieve your dreams. Confidence is the foundation of all your other abilities. “Progress, not perfection” is a saying to keep your confidence high. Every night, write down five achievements that are made that day. Find ways to add what you love to do to your life now. Making a list of old hobbies is a good way to restore your old interests. Things you’re enthusiastic about have their own store of energy. Connecting yourself with these things can give you a push when you need energy most.