Sometimes, even the best friends have fights. They disagree with each other and begin to argue(争辩). Sometimes, they even stop talking to each other for a long time.
    What can we do for them? Find another good friend who knows both of them very well and ask him or her to do something for them. Here are some useful ways:    
 
    ★Tell your feelings clearly but don’t criticize(批评) either of them. Begin with “I feel” instead of “You always”.
 
    ★Ask questions to make sure that you understand them. ★Repeat their ideas so that you can understand them.
 
    ★Never put anyone down. Saying things like “You are stupid(愚蠢的)” may make communication difficult.
    ★Try to find a good solution(解决方案) that makes the two friends happy. Never tell who is right and who is wrong. Instead, help them to find their own “win- win” solution. A “win-win” solution makes each of them feel good. In this way, they will be good friends again.