We all have heard the saying “We often hurt those we love or those closest to us!” Think of the times when we were（21）with someone or upset about something that happened.Those emotions were （22） with us when we arrived home. How did we （23） them？We released them madly to whoever we might （24） first when we were angry. It could be our wife or husband, children and even the dog or cat. （25）this behavior is impolite, we have all done it. We understand this is part of being humans and we learn to deal with it. Usually we say sorry for our bad （26） later to the person we hurt. （27） kids do not get it！ They don’t （28）that it’s just because we are humans. We may raise our voice，（29）, or even slam（砰地关上） a door. We may even （30） our child a fool and ask them （31） they are so stupid. To a kid it is hurtful and （32）, which can cause anxiety and a（33） of confidence. The more it （34）, the worse the child feels. It can affect his social life, school life and even home life, causing him to become （35）or inward.These emotions（36）much worse behavior if not dealt with. Children need to be （37） with respect and honesty. Once hurt happens, make sure we 38 to that child, get his full attention and wholeheartedly（39）for our loss of control. Take full （40）for our actions.