Being jobless for the last three months,I am upset nowadays.My son has lost his （1）from a good school and he might have to go to a less qualified school. I have moved from a spacious (宽敞的)apartment to a small one in order to （2） my living expenses.My wife has built extra stress. On top of that,my father-in-law （3） a week ago,which has added fuel to fire, （4） our family into a more terrible state.
　　In these circumstances I have two mental （5） :either to feel upset and keep losing my peace of mind,or（6） my negative thoughts with super mental powers about self-confidence and consistency,and （7） applying for new jobs with positive attitude.
　　I choose the second option because I believe that the pain I am （8） today will build up my（9） .My strengths will then increase my confidence and make me a good times,make me a （10） man one day. I understand that good and bad stages are part of（11） . While good times make me happy,bad times （12） the“inner”me.
　　Two months later, （13） ,I have finally landed on a job which is very exciting and offers a nice salary. Time has healed my wife's mental stress （14）the death of her father.My son has already been accepted by another good school because the admissions for new academic year were still （15）!
　　As I am back on the track of normal life,I can （16） say that the most important things that helped me （17） the crisis were my consistent character of patience,and （18） attitude towards life.So,while I wish you all the best life can （19）you,I would highly recom- mend taking the same attitude towards life （20） you are trapped in any of such situations.